What is a day time event
Our Tuesday and Thursday events run from 11 AM to 6 PM (please check our website or event posters for any time changes). These sessions cater to individuals seeking quick daytime rendezvous, offering an exciting and discreet break from the routine. Whether you’re looking for a brief escape from the office or a thrilling daytime encounter, these time slots are designed to provide a safe and enjoyable experience.
What is the dress code for all events
Gentlemen are encouraged to dress in smart casual attire, while ladies are invited to embrace a sexy and alluring look. Remember, you’re here to attract and engage with others, so be sure to look your best and dress to impress.
Do I have to register
No registration is required to attend our events. However, for certain catered events, we encourage you to RSVP to help us better prepare and ensure a seamless experience for all attendees. To RSVP, please contact us at 072 364 9779.
How do I pay
You may pay at the door by card or cash.
Are there rooms to play
Yes, we offer private rooms for your enjoyment. These rooms come with specific guidelines to ensure everyone’s comfort and privacy:
- Closed Door: Do not enter.
- Ajar Door: You may peek in.
- Open Door: You are welcome to watch.
Additionally, each room has signs indicating specific preferences, such as “Privacy Please – Do Not Enter,” “Ladies Welcome,” “Single Male Welcome,” or “Couples Welcome,” to help you understand the room’s intended use.
Do I have to pay for the rooms
When you attend an event, you pay at the door and gain access to our private rooms at no additional cost. To ensure that everyone has an opportunity to enjoy the facilities, we kindly ask that you limit your playtime to 30 minutes per session.
Are there ladies available
Please note that we do not provide partners; you are welcome to bring your own partner or connect with singles or couples at the event. Additionally, we have a professional masseuse available for hire. We recommend booking her services either before or during the event to ensure her availability.
Can I book the room when there is no event
Yes, you may book a room when there is no event. We ask that you book in advance with a deposit to secure the room and staff. Prices and additional information are available on our website.
What are the rules of the club
- Privacy Protocol: When a door is closed, do not open it. If a door is ajar, you may peek inside. An open door indicates you may watch.
- Approach Etiquette: If you’re interested in a couple, men approach men and women approach women to discuss dynamics.
- Payment and Tipping: Please settle your tab (keys or credit card secure open tabs) and remember to tip the staff.
- Respect Boundaries: No means no. Strictly adhere to the dress code and avoid aggressive flirting.
- Social Etiquette: If the vibe is off, you may be lingering; please avoid hovering.
- Room Maintenance: Help keep the rooms clean; bins and towels are provided.
Are single guys allowed
Yes single ladies and gentleman are allowed at all events.
What is the age demographic
- Age Limit: You must be 18 years or older to attend the club.
- Demographic: Our attendees typically range in age from 32 to 60 years old.
Do I have to pay for drinks
- Payment: You are responsible for purchasing your own drinks.
- Gratuity: Please consider tipping the staff for their service.
Do you serve food
We serve food during special events. Please check our website for details on upcoming special events.
Will I definitely get laid at a party
Getting to know others and the potential for intimacy depend on your connections with fellow attendees. The club does not guarantee any specific outcomes.
If I arrive as a man and later transition to a woman at the club, am I required to pay the entrance fee when ladies have free entry?
If you arrive as a man, you will be subject to the single male rates. For events where ladies receive free entrance, if you arrive dressed as a female, you will be granted free admission. Please refer to our website or posters for specific pricing and event details
May I Use the transformation room?
You are welcome to use the transformation room to change, as well as the clothing, wigs, shoes, and makeup provided. We kindly request that all Fetish Haven items are returned at the end of the evening
Are there any events tomorrow
For all event information please visit the website www.fetishhavensa.co.za
Are there workshops
Yes there are workshops available, please visit website for all workshop dates and times, if there are no upcoming workshops you welcome to contact the club to arrange a specific workshop. please note deposit secures booking, please contact the club for workshop prices
What is the demographic
Fetish Haven SA is a multiracial club that welcomes individuals of all races. Our membership reflects this diversity, with events sometimes drawing a predominant racial demographic. To find where you feel most comfortable, we recommend attending regularly until you find your niche
Is the place safe
The venue is located in a warehouse district surrounded by other warehouses, ensuring a safe environment with security personnel and cameras present at all neighboring companies
Do I have to participate
You are not obligated to participate. Every interaction at our club is based on mutual consent.
Do I need to book through website
You do not have to book through the website. You can simply attend an event and pay at the door. For some events, we may require an RSVP, so please check the website for more details
How do I enter at the Gate
To enter at the gate, please press 14# on the keypad.
Can I leave at anytime
Yes you may leave at anytime
What are the rules for orgi night
The rules are as follows: all activities require explicit consent, granted by the ladies or their partners for participation. Private rooms are closed on orgy nights, and all activities take place openly at the front of the club. Please do not engage with multiple partners simultaneously (no cross-pollination), and change condoms when switching partners. Your health is your responsibility, and the club assumes no liability. Please respect everyone present throughout the evening
Are events open to all or just specific kinks?
Our events are inclusive and open to everyone, regardless of specific kinks or interests. Just because an event may focus on BDSM, it doesn’t exclude swingers. Additionally, specific events catering to particular groups such as LGBTQ+ or whites only will be clearly indicated on our posters. Please refer to our website for details on these events
is there an event on a weekend
Please always check website but every Friday and every Saturday is an event.
Is the club open on a Sunday
The club is typically closed on Sundays, but occasionally we host special events such as Sunday Blaze for Days or LGBTQ+ events. Please check the website for updates and specific event details
is Parking secure
Parking is secure as we are in a gated warehouse facility
May i come without my partner
Yes you may
May I bring my own Hooka
No you may not, the club has Hooka pipes for rental
What is the entrance fee
Please check website for entrance fees
What is your next event
Please check the website for our next event
What time should I come
We recommend arriving early if you wish to connect with others and potentially engage in activities later. Arriving later may mean that connections have already been made, making it more challenging to join in.
Is there accommodation
Accommodation is available for a fee if booked at least two days in advance.
What are the rules regarding photos/videos
The POPI Act applies: No videos or photos are allowed at the club, except for private play in designated private spaces.
Is the Venue for hire
Yes, please contact Fetish Haven for rates