Venue and event rules

Fetish Haven Venue Rules

1. Dress Code

  • Gentlemen
    • Absolutely no shorts, flip flops, or caps.
    • If not dressing to theme or in kink gear, dress as though you’re going on a big date.
    • When in doubt, a collared shirt and smart shoes are always appropriate.
  • Ladies
    • Dress to theme, in kink gear, or simply look stunning!
  • Cross-Dressers, Trans Individuals, Kinksters, etc.
    • Dress to theme, in kink gear, or just look fabulous!
    • For assistance with attire, our Sissy Corner offers wigs and clothing for all body types.
  • Themed Evenings
    • We host themed nights (e.g., Christmas, Egyptian) where everyone is encouraged to include at least one element of the theme in their outfit.
    • Speak to our staff if you’d like help finding the right gear.
    • Dressing to theme may even win you a prize!

2. Consent and Communication

  • Consent is Essential
    • Always ask for permission—no means no!
    • No aggressive flirting or unwanted advances.
  • Approach Etiquette
    • Ladies or Couples Lead: Ladies and couples initiate approaches in our club.
    • Men should avoid approaching women who are with a partner; men should approach men, and women should approach women when discussing dynamics.
  • Respectful Interaction
    • Refrain from making any remarks or comments during live performances or in the voyeur room.

3. Behavior and Safety

  • No Drunken Behavior
    • Excessive drinking or disruptive drunken behavior is not allowed.
  • No Drugs
    • Drug use is strictly prohibited on the premises.
  • No Violence, Weapons, or Unauthorized Photos
    • Aggression or violent behavior of any kind is not tolerated.
    • Weapons are not permitted.
    • No unauthorized photography is allowed for the privacy and comfort of all members.
  • Escort Policy
    • Escorts are not permitted, and attendees may not bring escorts and present as a couple.

4. Privacy, Boundaries, and Room Etiquette

  • Private Room Etiquette
    • Closed Doors: Do not open closed doors.
    • Ajar Doors: You may look in if the door is slightly open.
    • Open Doors: Feel free to watch if the door is open, and the couple will indicate if they wish for you to join.
    • No Smoking or Drinking in Private Rooms: Keep private rooms free of smoke and drinks to maintain a clean and comfortable environment.
  • Locker Availability
    • Lockers are available for safekeeping of personal items.

5. Diversity and Respect

  • Our members are a mix of straight, gay, black, white, kinksters, gimps, littles, furries, and beyond. We embrace a variety of lifestyles and encourage everyone to do the same.
  • If you encounter norms or expressions different from your own, show respect and keep an open mind.

6. Payment and Tipping

  • Entry Fees and Bar Tabs
    • Please pay your entry fee and settle any bar tabs before leaving the venue.
  • Tipping
    • Tipping your bar and cleaning staff is optional but very much appreciated.

7. Orgy Night Rules

  • All activities require explicit consent, granted by the ladies or their partners for participation.
  • Private rooms are closed on orgy nights, and all activities take place openly at the front of the club.
  • Please do not engage with multiple partners simultaneously (no cross-pollination), and change condoms when switching partners.
  • Your health is your responsibility, and the club assumes no liability.
  • Please respect everyone present throughout the evening