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Venue and event rules
Fetish Haven Venue Rules
1. Dress Code
- Gentlemen
- Absolutely no shorts, flip flops, or caps.
- If not dressing to theme or in kink gear, dress as though you’re going on a big date.
- When in doubt, a collared shirt and smart shoes are always appropriate.
- Ladies
- Dress to theme, in kink gear, or simply look stunning!
- Cross-Dressers, Trans Individuals, Kinksters, etc.
- Dress to theme, in kink gear, or just look fabulous!
- For assistance with attire, our Sissy Corner offers wigs and clothing for all body types.
- Themed Evenings
- We host themed nights (e.g., Christmas, Egyptian) where everyone is encouraged to include at least one element of the theme in their outfit.
- Speak to our staff if you’d like help finding the right gear.
- Dressing to theme may even win you a prize!
2. Consent and Communication
- Consent is Essential
- Always ask for permission—no means no!
- No aggressive flirting or unwanted advances.
- Approach Etiquette
- Ladies or Couples Lead: Ladies and couples initiate approaches in our club.
- Men should avoid approaching women who are with a partner; men should approach men, and women should approach women when discussing dynamics.
- Respectful Interaction
- Refrain from making any remarks or comments during live performances or in the voyeur room.
3. Behavior and Safety
- No Drunken Behavior
- Excessive drinking or disruptive drunken behavior is not allowed.
- No Drugs
- Drug use is strictly prohibited on the premises.
- No Violence, Weapons, or Unauthorized Photos
- Aggression or violent behavior of any kind is not tolerated.
- Weapons are not permitted.
- No unauthorized photography is allowed for the privacy and comfort of all members.
- Escort Policy
- Escorts are not permitted, and attendees may not bring escorts and present as a couple.
4. Privacy, Boundaries, and Room Etiquette
- Private Room Etiquette
- Closed Doors: Do not open closed doors.
- Ajar Doors: You may look in if the door is slightly open.
- Open Doors: Feel free to watch if the door is open, and the couple will indicate if they wish for you to join.
- No Smoking or Drinking in Private Rooms: Keep private rooms free of smoke and drinks to maintain a clean and comfortable environment.
- Locker Availability
- Lockers are available for safekeeping of personal items.
5. Diversity and Respect
- Our members are a mix of straight, gay, black, white, kinksters, gimps, littles, furries, and beyond. We embrace a variety of lifestyles and encourage everyone to do the same.
- If you encounter norms or expressions different from your own, show respect and keep an open mind.
6. Payment and Tipping
- Entry Fees and Bar Tabs
- Please pay your entry fee and settle any bar tabs before leaving the venue.
- Tipping
- Tipping your bar and cleaning staff is optional but very much appreciated.
7. Orgy Night Rules
- All activities require explicit consent, granted by the ladies or their partners for participation.
- Private rooms are closed on orgy nights, and all activities take place openly at the front of the club.
- Please do not engage with multiple partners simultaneously (no cross-pollination), and change condoms when switching partners.
- Your health is your responsibility, and the club assumes no liability.
- Please respect everyone present throughout the evening