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A: When you enter Fetish Haven, you’ll be welcomed by our friendly staff who are here to ensure you feel comfortable and informed about the venue and any special events happening that night. You’ll experience a warm, inviting atmosphere where everyone is encouraged to relax, connect, and explore at their own pace. Importantly, no one is ever obligated to participate in anything unless they genuinely want to; your comfort and choice are our top priorities.

At the entrance, you’ll pay by card or cash. Once inside, our bar will hold either your keys or credit card as you run your tab, making it easy to enjoy yourself without worry. Our club is designed with multiple areas for socializing, themed play, and quiet spaces for private conversations or downtime. We strive to create a safe, inclusive, and respectful environment, and we’re confident you’ll feel right at home.

Our Tuesday and Thursday events run from 11 AM to 8 PM (please check our website or event posters for any time changes). These sessions cater to individuals seeking quick daytime rendezvous, offering an exciting and discreet break from the routine. Whether you’re looking for a brief escape from the office or a thrilling daytime encounter, these time slots are designed to provide a safe and enjoyable experience.

Gentlemen are encouraged to dress in smart casual attire, while ladies are invited to embrace a sexy and alluring look. Remember, you’re here to attract and engage with others, so be sure to look your best and dress to impress.

A: Yes, registration and RSVP are required to attend our events. To get started, go to our website, click on Membership Registration, and create a profile. For each weekend event, you’ll also need to RSVP in advance. Please note that event approval takes 24 to 48 hours, so be sure to RSVP early to secure your spot. please contact 072 364 9779 for any questions.

You may pay at the door by card or cash.

Yes, we offer private rooms for your enjoyment. These rooms come with specific guidelines to ensure everyone’s comfort and privacy:

• Closed Door: Do not enter.
• Ajar Door: You may peek in.
• Open Door: You are welcome to watch.

Additionally, each room has signs indicating specific preferences, such as “Privacy Please – Do Not Enter,” “Ladies Welcome,” “Single Male Welcome,” or “Couples Welcome,” to help you understand the room’s intended use.

When you attend an event, you pay at the door and gain access to our private rooms at no additional cost. To ensure that everyone has an opportunity to enjoy the facilities, we kindly ask that you limit your playtime to 30 minutes per session.

Please note that we do not provide partners; you are welcome to bring your own partner or connect with singles or couples at the event. Additionally, we have a professional masseuse available for hire. We recommend booking her services either before or during the event to ensure her availability.

Yes, you may book a room when there is no event. We ask that you book in advance with a deposit to secure the room and staff. Prices and additional information are available on our website.

• Privacy Protocol: When a door is closed, do not open it. If a door is ajar, you may peek inside. An open door indicates you may watch.
• Approach Etiquette: If you’re interested in a couple, men approach men and women approach women to discuss dynamics.
• Payment and Tipping: Please settle your tab (keys or credit card secure open tabs) and remember to tip the staff.
• Respect Boundaries: No means no. Strictly adhere to the dress code and avoid aggressive flirting.
• Social Etiquette: If the vibe is off, you may be lingering; please avoid hovering.
• Room Maintenance: Help keep the rooms clean; bins and towels are provided.
• Please also refer to rules on the rules page of the website

Yes single ladies and gentleman are allowed at all events.

• Age Limit: You must be 18 years or older to attend the club.
• Demographic: Our attendees typically range in age from 32 to 60 years old.

• Payment: You are responsible for purchasing your own drinks.
• Gratuity: Please consider tipping the staff for their service.

We serve food during special events. Please check our website for details on upcoming special events.

Getting to know others and the potential for intimacy depend on your connections with fellow attendees. The club does not guarantee any specific outcomes.

If you arrive as a man, you will be subject to the single male rates. For events where ladies receive free entrance, if you arrive dressed as a female, you will be granted free admission. Please refer to our website or posters for specific pricing and event details

You are welcome to use the transformation room to change, as well as the clothing, wigs, shoes, and makeup provided. We kindly request that all Fetish Haven items are returned at the end of the evening

For all event information please visit the website www.fetishhavensa.co.za

Yes there are workshops available, please visit website for all workshop dates and times, if there are no upcoming workshops you welcome to contact the club to arrange a specific workshop. please note deposit secures booking, please contact the club for workshop prices

Fetish Haven SA is a multiracial club that welcomes individuals of all races. Our membership reflects this diversity, with events sometimes drawing a predominant racial demographic. To find where you feel most comfortable, we recommend attending regularly until you find your niche

The venue is located in a warehouse district surrounded by other warehouses, ensuring a safe environment with security personnel and cameras present at all neighboring companies

You are not obligated to participate. Every interaction at our club is based on mutual consent.

You do not have to book through the website. You can simply attend an event and pay at the door. For some events, we may require an RSVP, so please check the website for more details

To enter at the gate, please press 14# on the keypad.

Yes you may leave at anytime

The rules are as follows: all activities require explicit consent, granted by the ladies or their partners for participation. Private rooms are closed on orgy nights, and all activities take place openly at the front of the club. Please do not engage with multiple partners simultaneously (no cross-pollination), and change condoms when switching partners. Your health is your responsibility, and the club assumes no liability. Please respect everyone present throughout the evening

Our events are inclusive and open to everyone, regardless of specific kinks or interests. Just because an event may focus on BDSM, it doesn’t exclude swingers. Additionally, specific events catering to particular groups such as LGBTQ+ or whites only will be clearly indicated on our posters. Please refer to our website for details on these events

Please always check website but every Friday and every Saturday is an event.

The club is typically closed on Sundays, but occasionally we host special events such as Sunday Blaze for Days or LGBTQ+ events. Please check the website for updates and specific event details

Parking is secure as we are in a gated warehouse facility

Yes you may

No you may not, the club has Hooka pipes for rental

Please check website for entrance fees

Please check the website for our next event

We recommend arriving early if you wish to connect with others and potentially engage in activities later. Arriving later may mean that connections have already been made, making it more challenging to join in.

Accommodation is available for a fee if booked at least two days in advance.

The POPI Act applies: No videos or photos are allowed at the club, except for private play in designated private spaces.

Yes, please contact Fetish Haven for rates

A: Hellfyre is an exclusive, private club designed for a select group of individuals who enjoy a more intimate and high-caliber experience. Unlike other events, Hellfyre is invite-only and hosts monthly parties on the last Saturday of each month. Membership is required, and the focus is on fostering a close-knit community of like-minded people. At Hellfyre, we prioritize connection, privacy, and quality, offering a space where members can enjoy a unique atmosphere and meaningful interactions. If you’re looking for a more personal and refined experience, Hellfyre is the place to be.

To receive an invite to Hellfyre, we prefer to get to know you personally and understand your interests and values. As an exclusive, private club, we aim to foster a community of like-minded individuals who appreciate intimacy and connection. If you’re interested, please reach out to us and arrange to meet the couple behind Hellfyre. Through this meeting, we can get to know you better, ensure that you align with the club’s ethos, and extend an invitation if it feels like a good fit. We look forward to building meaningful connections with those who share our vision of quality and privacy.

A: Hellfyre events are held at a private, exclusive venue that is carefully chosen to ensure a luxurious and intimate atmosphere. The exact location is kept confidential to maintain privacy for our members. Invitations are sent with specific details about the venue, ensuring that only those invited have access to the event. If you’re interested in attending, you’ll receive the location information once your membership is confirmed and your invite is extended.

A swinger is an individual or couple who participates in consensual sexual activities with others outside of their primary relationship, often in a social or recreational setting. Swingers typically engage in “wife swapping” or “partner swapping,” where couples exchange partners for sexual encounters. The practice can involve different types of non-monogamous arrangements, such as group sex or casual hookups, but it is always based on mutual consent and respect within the boundaries of each couple’s relationship.

Swinging is a form of consensual non-monogamy, where participants openly agree to engage with others sexually or romantically, often in private clubs, parties, or social events designed for such activities. Communication and consent are key elements in the swinger lifestyle, ensuring that everyone involved is comfortable and agrees to the interactions.

BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism. It refers to a variety of consensual sexual practices that involve power dynamics, control, and physical sensations. Here’s a breakdown of the key components:

• Bondage: The practice of restraining a partner using ropes, cuffs, or other materials to restrict movement.
• Discipline: The use of rules and punishments within a BDSM relationship, often related to behavior or actions.
• Dominance and Submission: These describe the power dynamic where one partner takes the dominant role (the one in control) and the other takes the submissive role (the one who yields to control).
• Sadism: The practice of inflicting pain or humiliation on a consenting partner for sexual pleasure.
• Masochism: The practice of receiving pain or humiliation for sexual pleasure.

BDSM activities can vary widely, from light, playful role-playing to more intense, physically challenging scenarios, and they are always based on mutual consent and respect for boundaries. Safe words are often used in BDSM to communicate when to slow down or stop an activity if it’s too intense.

BDSM is considered a form of consensual non-monogamy or kink, where the focus is on creating a safe and controlled environment for exploring power dynamics, sensory experiences, and personal limits. The emphasis is on communication, trust, and the well-being of all involved parties.

A: There are a wide variety of kinks and fetishes that people may explore, and they can vary greatly from person to person. Some common kinks include role-playing, foot fetishism, spanking, bondage (aside from BDSM), latex or leather fetish, voyeurism (watching others), exhibitionism (being watched), age play, pet play, furries, and impact play (such as flogging or paddling). Every kink or fetish is unique to the individual or couple and involves different levels of intensity and exploration. It’s important to note that all kinks should be practiced with consent, communication, and respect for boundaries. At Fetish Haven, we encourage an open-minded and safe environment for individuals to explore their desires, provided all activities are consensual and respectful.

A: When you walk into the Fetish Haven South Africa (FHSA), you’re entering a space designed for connection, exploration, and respect. Our club is not about hiring escorts or casual encounters—it’s about creating a community where people can engage in consensual, kink-positive experiences. FHSA offers a variety of events, from educational workshops to themed parties, where members can explore their interests and meet like-minded individuals. We foster an inclusive environment where respect, communication, and consent are paramount. The focus is on socializing, mutual exploration, and discovering the lifestyle at your own pace. Our goal is to provide a safe and welcoming space for everyone, regardless of experience level.

A: At Fetish Haven South Africa (FHSA), we provide a space where members can explore and discuss their fantasies in a safe, consensual, and respectful environment. While the club itself cannot provide specific fetishes or fantasies directly other than provide equipment and space, it’s possible for members to meet others who share similar interests and explore those fantasies with mutual consent. It takes time, patience, and building connections with other like-minded individuals. If you’re looking to fulfill a particular fantasy, we encourage open communication and respect for boundaries. You’ll have the opportunity to meet other members, engage in conversation, and, if all parties are comfortable, explore your desires together. Remember, every interaction must be based on consent, and patience is key in finding people who align with your interests.

A: To learn more about the lifestyle and explore your interests further, Fetish Haven South Africa (FHSA) offers private workshops and one-on-one sessions tailored to your needs. We provide in-depth learning on BDSM and its various levels, different kinks, and fetishes. Whether you’re new to the scene or looking to expand your knowledge, our workshops are designed to help you gain a better understanding of safe practices, communication, and consent. If you’re more interested in the swinger lifestyle, we also offer casual meet-and-greet sessions where you can connect with other like-minded individuals. Please contact the club directly to arrange a workshop or private session that suits your interests.