Frequently Asked Questions
> Is there a dresscode?
Almost all of our parties & events have a theme & dresscode. This is a safe place to live our alternative lifestyles. Its an environment where we turn our fantasies into realities. So leave your boring work clothes for work, and leave your casual clothes for those walks in the mall. Put a little effort into what makes you happy. Reflect your kinks in the way that you dress and dazzle us with your true form. Its so much more fun when everyone participates.
Strictly No Shorts, flip flops or sandals!
> Can single men attend?
Of Course you can!
> Is Fetish Haven Multiracial ?
This is a silly question but something we need to address. Fetish Haven does not discriminate. FetishHavenSa & its affiliates are proud supporters of Human Equality and Dignity regardless of race, gender, Orientation, Sexual preference or identification. We embrace all people from any aspect of life. Everyone of us has fetish or kink, and everyone is welcome at Fetish Haven
> Does Fetish Haven have Exclusive / VIP events for the more affluent kinksters?
Yes, please remember to register so that we can capture your interests. Dont worry its all anonymous and kept completely confidential. We use this data to tailor make parties based on the interests expressed by our members. We will then host, exclusive and invite only events where only people who have the same interests will be allowed to attend an event. If you are interested in these exclusive parties and would like more info, please send us an email firstname.lastname@example.org
> Do you offer training services?
Yes we do! are you interested in a kink or fetish but need help learning or aquiring the different skills involved? Miss Vee has a wide range of experience when it comes to the art of fetish/kink training. if your interest is something Ms Vee cannot assist with, we have a variety of skilled and experienced associates linked to Fetish Haven who can. There will always be someone we can refer you to to assist you.
> Can i contact Fetish Haven directly?
Yes, if you cannot find the information you looking for on our website, please feel free to call/email or whatsapp us.
Phone: 082 435 6024
Whatsapp: 082 435 6024
> Is BDSM all about pain?
NO!! - It is not all about pain. BDSM covers a variety of acts carried out between consensual partners. Some acts dont involve any pain at all but is still considered BDSM. BDSM is a term used to described certain aspects of sex that can be split into these major groups: bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. Although some people think that BDSM is 'kinky', in some cases it doesn't have to involve sex at all – the mental connotations of some acts are more of a turn-on than the prelude of a particular act leading to sex. BDSM has many avenue's and levels. It is up to you to decide where your interests lie.
> How can i accept my partner cross-dressing?
cross dressing can occur in both men & women, although the term is largely associated with men using female clothing. For some its an inherent need to reflect their inner true self, this is more of a lifestyle change and more correctly termed as Trans-gender. For others its a hobby, part-time, kink or fetish. Does it mean your partner is gay? - NO!!. Does it mean your partner is less of a man? - NO!!. Does it mean that your relationship will change or that the love is lost? - NO!!. Although every situation is different, the key to understanding the reasoning behind your partner cross-dressing is plain and simple communication. Talk about it and make an endearing attempt to understand it. You will find that you will be more accepting of it when your views are not clouded by your own judgment and assumptions. At the end of the day, it might just be a different texture or colour of fabric that triggered it.
> I am ashamed of my kinks?!
Dont ever be ashamed of you kink! - provided that your acts are safe and consensual and you are not causing harm to anyone or anything. Embrace it, its who you are and its what makes you happy. Fetish Haven is a safe space without judgment or prejudice where you can practice and carry out your kinks and fetishes in freedom.
> Is it possible to barter professional services for event entrances?
Yes, if you own a business where you can provide a professional service or product that is required or will be of use to Fetish Haven then we can discuss and barter. please contact Miss Vee for further information.
> How safe is the venue?
Extremely Safe. The venue is situated inside a secure complex with 24/7 armed security. There is ample off street parking for your vehicle and the parking area is also blocked off from the street so that it cannot be viewed. We have regular patrols in the area as well as inside the complex by security guards. Your safety is our main concern and there is no doubt that our location, security services and discretion creates a safe and free environment.
> Do you offer counselling support & services for couples or the different fetishes?
Although Miss Vee is not a licenced councellor, the experience she carries within the Fetish lifestyle is second to none. Miss Vee has a wide variety of experirnce and skills within the lifestyle and will be able to coach and guide you to a better & more accepting mondset. If you are a couple and require help in understanding and accepting each other. Miss Vee can assist. After all, everyone in the lifestyle is considered family and we are all here to help each other.
> Can i attend a party or event with a theme that does not necessarily appeal to me?
Yes, Please do! Just because the theme doesnt apply to you doesnt mean you cant enjoy the event. After all, this alternative lifestyle of ours requires accepting of everyone and all of their kinks or fetishes. Nobody will force you to do anything against your will. Parties are more fun when there is a variety of fetishes about. If you feel like you just want to explore or educate yourself on something new, please join us at one of the events.
> Will i be judged or feel out of place?
Fetish Haven is a judgement free zone. Feel free to do and be whoever it is you want to be.
> Is the venue discreet?
100% completely discreet. The location, entrance, parking and venue itself is completely discreet.
> If i use my Debit/Credit Card to make a payment, how will it reflect on my statement?
Considering we are trying to be as discreet as possible, there will be nothing on your statement or notices showing that you were at our venue. We use our holding company's name when processing card payments. This will ensure that your expenses remain discreet.